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Successful Swinging

Do penile enhancement products work?

None of them have been proven in scientifically controlled double blinded trials. The general feeling amongst specialists is that penile size is genetically determined and fixed at puberty. The ones that do “work”, don’t really increase the size of the penis. What they do is engorge your own penis so their might be a slight increase in girth but this is still your own penis getting to its maximum potential.

Penile pumps tend to engorge the penis temporarily and have no permanent result and if used to excess or incorrectly may damage the penis. I have met some men who say that their pumped up penis is permanently larger, but I have found no proof of this.

According to a doctor in the field … there is no known scientific evidence to prove that any of the pills work. There are only anecdotal stories. “The big one that got away.” So save your money, and more importantly, focus on things that you can control.

If you still feel like you want that extra ‘oomph’, there is one proven way to non-surgically increase the size of the penis - lose weight. If you feel the base of the penis you will note that there is a fat pad which can be up to 2 inches in depth, losing this will increase the size of your penis by that amount. Giving up smoking can also increase engorgement (as smoke is a vasoconstrictor) and therefore allows your penis to get to its maximum potential. Cock rings offer a safe way to increase your girth temporarily. Finally, shaving your pubic hair can give the appearance of a larger penis.

Does Size really matter?

There is so much talk about size, but does size really matter? Even in the Vanilla world there is talk about size. Size of breasts, size of butts and size of the penises. This is nothing new. Thousands of years ago painters and sculptors took artistic license with their subjects. Women were often shown with larger breasts and hips – symbolizing fertility. Males were shown with broader shoulders, larger muscles and, of course, larger penises depicted virility. 

So, what is the truth? Does size matter? The truth is …are you ready for this?... there is no universal truth. Don’t you hate it when writers do shit like that? The truth is, each lady has her preference and often it is more an issue with men, than with women. You guys like to see us playing with a big dick.  Unless you are teeny wheeny, most females do not care about the size and much as they do care about you knowing how to work it.

You can’t do much about the size of your penis, but you CAN do something about your attitude, lovemaking skills and confidence, which are more important than size to ALL of the ladies I know. You have heard this before, but for some reason refuse to believe it. Whether you have a small, medium, or large unit, do not get involved with people that talk about others and are all about size. Focusing on that will make it difficult to keep your confidence – and your dick – up. Is it fun to find the “big” boy to play with? Sometimes it is. The Lifestyle is all about variety. But I can say that it is never a determining factor for me, and some of the “big” boys will not go where the average guys can go. 

Your fears are normal but are just based on myths. I can say from talking with many ladies in the Lifestyle and our club, and from personal experience, those myths are not valid. You have the proof right next to you! If you are able to satisfy your partner time after time, there is no reason to be concerned.

The very best thing to do is just get those thoughts right out of your head. If you are too concerned with your size you are going to build up so much anxiety that when the time comes... you will have difficulty rising to the occasion. We have seen that happen time after time. 

Oh YES! There are a few women for whom size matters more than anything else, but they are the exception, not the rule. For these ladies it is a fetish – just like the urge to spank someone. If you are average, you probably won’t play with them, just like you might not want to be spanked (or maybe you do!). There are also women who prefer heavy men, or thin men, or blonde men, you will not be attractive to, or attracted by, everyone, so keep it in perspective. We have never encountered anyone with too small penis in all of the years we have been in the lifestyle. We have played with guys who are - I dare say - too big. Often very big men don’t get as hard (which is more exciting to me than size) and it’s probably a good thing. If that much blood moved into the penis, they might lose consciousness! There is a comfort issue as well. As stated before, if you are too big, there are some rides I won’t let you in! There is so much more to the sexual experience than just size.

Here are some comments from lifestyle ladies about what makes you sexy, not your penis.

 **  Condidence.. definitely. Even though looks and size may play a role, your confidence is seen before your dick is. That means confidence without arrogance. Sally

** Chivalry ..yes very important.  Chivalry is honorable behavior especially towards women. Betty

**  Playful. I like men who make me laugh and can be playful. A great smile and sense of humor go a long way. Lilly

** Affectionate men win me over. Not so touchy feely that I feel dirty but soft and almost ladylike.  Janet

** A sharp-dressed man.  I spend a lot of time deciding on what to wear so I look my best for a swinging function, I do not want to be hit on by someone who made his decision on his way out the door. I make sure I look good and my man looks good. Come on guys dress for success.  Mary

So guys - relax, be a gentleman. Make the lady feel good and you will be popular. That said - make peace with your penis. After all, your penis is your friend, your lifelong companion, and shares in many of the decisions you make. Be happy with him. Be strong. Be confident. Even though you may be so very proud of your friend, it is also my opinion and the opinion of many of my lady friends; dick shots as the main profile picture, do not win hearts. I believe the term is “cock bombing. When I see profiles when there are only dick shots, my impression is “he is a dick.”  A friend of mine once told me “I know he has a dick, but what about the rest of him?” Be sure you have face shots and body shots, then the dick shots are a turn on not a turn off.

Let’s hear from you ladies out there and remember, I love penises of all shape and sizes. If you see me at a convention, show me yours!

Happy swinging!

Lady Suzanne

Alternative Lifestyles: Soap Box

It seems that those who sit in judgment of people who are “not like them” are missing so much of what life has to give.  Michael and I would like this year to be a year when everyone celebrates those differences.  Does it matter if swingers like threesomes, foursomes, groups or orgies? Do you like to see (or be part of) bi ladies playing together? Should you care if people like to be tied, gagged or spanked? Why should it matter if someone is straight, bi, gay, a cross-dresser, dominatrix or trans gendered? As active swingers we have blurred the lines of sensuality, and certainly have opposed the accepted practices of our current culture. We represent a range on the spectrum of human sexuality. What we all share is that we are sexual and expressive, and want to be accepted as we are.

Alternative Lifestyles: BDSM community

Have you ever had the pleasure of meeting people who express their sexuality in the realms of bondage play? Wow! I did not know what I did not know. There is a science to this type of play and a freedom of trust and expression that someone outside the game cannot understand. We have been to several conventions where we were able to view some bondage rituals. Hot oils, red fannies and strange contraptions were the teachers. Anyone who participated left with smiles and a new sense of who they were. What can be more freeing than that?  At a convention one year a friend of ours wanted to go to the bondage room and asked that we go to support her. She made the appointment and we sat in the audience. She was being tied up, and then the master used different items to get a reaction and provide sexual feelings. There was also a lady on the cross next to our friend and half way through the demonstration she squirted all over the floor. It was wild!

This year for our Halloween party we had a bondage room and were pleasantly surprised at the interest. There was hot waxing, the magic wand, and the cross.  We did learn one rule; do not ever ask your Dom if that is all she has!  Next time you go on a Couples Cruise or to a Naughty convention (Naughty in N'awlins or Naughty in L.A.), check out the bondage room. You can sexplore in a safe, sane environment.

Alternative Lifestyles: The Gay community

The gay community: The members from the gay community that we have had the pleasure of spending time with have given us so much enjoyment. They are open and honest with who they are, enjoy being accepted for who they are and know what friendships and relationships are all about. What a wonderful thing to see ‘couples’ together for such long periods. The strong family ties and the devotion and dedication they have for each other and their community always touches me. The first time we were invited to share in a community BBQ was to celebrate a friend running for office. Empress for the Carousel Ball. The food, the fun and the fellowship was uplifting. Every one was accepting, sexy and just plain pleasurable. 

Over the years we have shared the heartaches with many of our friends and the struggles just to be accepted. The political climate in our country still angers me because this country was founded on “we are all created equal”, but somehow that does not seem to be true. (ok no soap box)  We have friends who have been in the same relationship for over 20 years. They are a great couple and do enjoy some swinging time. However in the four years I have known him, he has not let me suck his dick. My husband can suck his dick but I can not. “You do not have hair on your face” is always his response. So once at the club when he was performing (as a Cycle Slut) I put on a fake mustache hoping things would go my way. He laughed so hard but still managed to get out a resounding NO. 

Alternative Lifestyles: The Drag Queen community

The enjoyment we get from spending time with Drag Queens is unparalleled. They have a light spirit and very warm hearts. They know how to have a great time and to be who they enjoy being. These ladies are such a close community and have done so much to fight AIDS and to help its victims. Their celebration of life is far beyond what many of us experience because of the close ties with the sadness of AIDS. Our first encounter with these fantastic ladies was the result of a friend’s invitation to a Christmas party. I had no idea what to expect since this was very new to me. Upon entering BJ’s Carousel, the place was alive and decorated wildly. The one thing this community enjoys is lip synching to songs. Some were dressed up lovely and some just for the fun of it and our favorite were the Denver Cycle Sluts; wonderful ladies with hairy beards, hairy chests and glitter all over.  Some were singing serious songs and some were singing the wrong words to songs, and others just cutting up. We laughed so hard. We found that we enjoy the glitz and glamour so much that we try to never miss a social event. 

It did not take them long to adopt us, not being queen and all, and we sure loved it. After a short time I was on stage lip synching like I was a queen. The first time they got me on stage I could not think of a song that would be fun and entertaining. I performed “Tits and Ass” from the musical Chorus Line. The place went nuts since I was the only girl there with real tits and ass. Have you ever seen the movie “To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar?” The Carousel Ball is just like the movie. Drag Queens from all area hoping to be crowed Emperor and Empress. Drag Queens from all over the country to come for support and the festivities. There is so much glamour, we were over whelmed. Each year this community raises 100 of thousands of dollars for AIDS research and other organizations in need.

Alternative Lifestyles: Swinging Lifestyle

As we enter a new year and look forward to the friends we will meet and the fantasies we will fulfill, I would like to remind everyone what makes the Swinging Lifestyle so special.  Michael and I have had the pleasure of meeting many wonderful people in this lifestyle and expanding our horizons.  We have been very lucky to meet many friends who express their sexual freedom in very different ways.  Once we opened our minds and our hearts to the differences, we experienced an explosion of fantastic fun and friends. Sadly, we have also met many who still feel that they have the right to tell others how they should feel or not feel, and how they should express themselves in sexual play.  The truth about being a sexual being is “there are no rules”,  as long as we do not harm others physically or psychologically. We are all different; having had different life experiences, and express ourselves in very different ways. 

The definition of the Lifestyle is about discovering your sexuality, whatever that means to you.  Following are a few of the magnificent diverse communities we have had the pleasure of meeting over the years and hope you find a way to have similar experiences. 

The swinging community:

So what about those swingers? What is their gig? What we have experienced from being swingers is the freedom to express ourselves sexually; in our dress, in our play and in our fantasies. Swingers are friendly, happy, well adjusted and honest. I was asked once “Why do you do that, are you two not happy?” On the contrary, swingers can swing because they are happy. They have a strong relationship with their primary partner and are only looking to enhance their relationship, never replace it.  I could share many of our experiences, like giving blow jobs for beads (why be traditional and just flash?), having my pussy shaved in public and now it is on a documentary, sharing a king bed with 8 people, and finding use for toys and food that were new to us. (I still say food is not a toy). 

It is my opinion that there are many, many couples who are swingers, but if you asked them, they would say NO!  Voyeurs for example; we know millions watch porn. This is an industry making a pot load of money.  It can not be just from single men. People enjoy watching people have sex. At a swinger’s club, in the after hours rooms’; watching is awesome because now it is 3-D. You can see, hear, smell, and if lucky be a part of all the action. If you like to show off your style, being an exhibitionist is welcomed. Find your spot in the after-hours room; make wild sex with your partner knowing so many of us are watching. Maybe you have not reached out and touched another couple or single, but you are swinging! You do not know what you do not know. Reach out this year for some exciting sexual play, some wonderful and accepting friends and the bonus is a stronger relationship with your partner and a healthy sense of self. See you at a party!

Blow job safety tips
  1. Never brush your teeth or floss before giving a blow job. Brushing and flossing open your mouth to cuts and bleeding. If you feel you need to brush then do it at least an hour before play time, or use a mouth wash. Mouth washes are clean feeling and germ fighting.
  2. Some men use a stay hard cream that allows them to stay harder longer by desensitizing the penis. This is ok for hand jobs and intercourse but many of those creams have Novocain in them and the woman’s mouth can go numb.  Let her know if and when you use such a cream. 
  3. Also with the creams do not use the sweet tasting ones because they may contain sugars which can lead to yeast infections. This also goes for mints.
  4. Things like Chloraseptic sore throat spray, sprayed in the back of your throat can also ease the gag reflex. It numbs the area just enough.

 

To Blow or not to Blow

I have been reading the blogs lately on some of the swinger sites and there has been some chatter on blow jobs. Is there such a thing as a bad bow job? Why do men like blow jobs so much?  Are there any secrets on giving a blow job?   In a nut shell (no pun), there is no such thing as a bad blow job, men live for blow jobs and if they could give them to themselves they would never leave home. This article will give some secrets about blow jobs. One of the most wonderful things about the Lifestyle is how much we can learn about ourselves. When my husband and I started dating we had a long talk about blow jobs. The reason for the talk is I did not give them. I remember him saying “I do not want to be shallow, but I do not want to go the rest of my life without a blow job.” That is where things changed. I took the time, followed his direction and learned to give blow jobs. They are quite fun.

Most men are intimately familiar with their genitalia, even if they do not know how it functions. Although some won’t admit it, many men begin masturbating in their early teens. Despite threats from their mothers that they would go blind, men have become expert masturbators. Conversely, women in this society experience an anti-sexual upbringing and are unfamiliar with their own genitalia. They are then even less familiar with the male genitalia. Thus the problem begins. To make matters worse, women have relatively fewer sex partners, which means fewer experiences. Women expect the man to “know” how to please her and he will feel inadequate if he is not successful. Good communication is the key to outstanding sexual experiences. Both partners are responsible for insuring sexual satisfaction. That is the subject of another article.

Ladies, in this article I will give some tips on giving great blow jobs. 

Women are rarely concerned about penis size, yet even before adulthood, men equate manliness with the size of their penis. The penis is composed of spongy erectile tissue and its main function is to deposit sperm. The foreskin in the uncircumcised male covers the head of the penis. The scrotum hangs under the penis and has many blood vessels to stabilize the proper temperature and ensure healthy sperm.  In order to give great blow jobs we don’t need to go into the complete medical layout of the male body, just become familiar with these two parts. 

Many men like it if you get between their legs to play. This allows them to watch, touch and maneuver better. If you place yourself between the legs you can balance and get full access to the penis and the balls. Men enjoy having their balls touched and licked as well as their penis. Start by taking the penis in your hand. As you move it up and down you will feel it grow.  You might enjoy the sensation of it growing in your mouth - place the penis in your mouth and just gently move it up and down in your mouth.  Friction is what makes the penis get enlarged so remember to keep moving. If he is circumcised, pull back on the skin at the base of the shaft to expose the sensitive area under the foreskin. Note, some uncircumcised men are extremely sensitive, proceed with caution.

Some women have a strong gag reflex. This can make things difficult, but can be overcome. By grasping the penis shaft at the base with your hand, the length of the penis that you can insert into the mouth is much smaller, but still feels to your partner as if all of it is in your mouth. Also, if you place the penis towards to roof of your mouth he will sense that he is filling you and you do not touch the gag area in the back of your throat.  Keep your mouth moist. Many women spend too much time trying to swallow saliva, let it run out, it is a good lubricant.

Bad lubricant story.

During one of our ‘play sessions’ a lady was skillfully and passionately performing fellatio when her mouth began to go numb. Soon she had no feeling in it at all. It was like watching a sitcom when she started slurring her words. After a few minutes the lady was barely able to talk, let alone continue the performance. Turns out the gentleman had used one of those creams on his penis to make him last longer for the orgy. The thing in stay hard creams that works is Novocain. So you can see it also worked on his partner’s mouth. Play time is over 

Vary your technique.

As you have his penis in your hand, place it in your mouth and move both your hands and your mouth up and down. Let the head of the penis go into your throat as far as you can then back out. Take just the head and suck. Not hard enough to start a Harley but enough to hold tight. If he is uncircumcised pull the fore skin back and gently suck. Another way is to take the head and hold it in your mouth, do not move your hands or head but move your tongue all around it. The area around the ridge and under the ridge is very receptive to the warm tongue.  Also take his penis in your hand and squeeze tight and enter the hole on the tip with your tongue. This is extremely receptive area; it is like the tip of your clit.

Play with his penis. Better yet, make love to it.  Licking it like an ice cream cone is innocent and erotic. Just move your tongue up and down the shaft and run your tongue over the top and sides. Repeat it in several areas. Lick around the top just under the head. That is a very responsive area so keep your mouth moist.  The head or ‘glans’ is considered the most sensitive area for uncircumcised men while the frenulum (the area just below the head on the bottom of the penis) is especially sensitive in circumcised men. This is a good spot to focus some attention. Run your tongue on it.  Remember to pull back the foreskin in order to expose this area if he is uncircumcised. Not all blow jobs require you take in the whole penis and fill your mouth.

Stroking in time with some slow love song is an excellent way to pace the activity. Take his penis between your hands and roll it. Very gently roll it back and forth like rolling bread. Remember no twisting and turning … very gently roll and move your hands up and down the shaft. If you want to be a virgin again tighten the grip. If you want to tease make the grip very loose so he feels a feather going over him. When you stroke go up and down the full length of the penis even over the top. If things start to get dry, place it in your mouth for the warm sensation and the moisture or if you have a good non sticky, non flavor lubricant. 

Another area to tease is the crease where the top of the leg meets the torso. Lick that area while holding his penis and/or his balls.  Move the balls around in your hand like dice.  Place his balls in your mouth and make a low humming sound. Get the penis very moist, then suck air in with your mouth over it, the cool air on his penis is very exciting. Place an ice cube (small) in your mouth then place him in your mouth. You can expect a jump but he will be smiling. Some ladies place mints in their mouths then let it melt while going up and down. Be careful not to use strong mints as they can cause discomfort. Also watch the sugar. If you wind up having intercourse the sugar is a great way to get a yeast infection.

Minty Freshness

I remember a time when we were in a play session with this couple and while I was giving her man a blow job she also joined in and had a mint in her mouth. It added to the refreshing smell and he really enjoyed it. I thought she was just refreshing her breath when all along she had a hidden weapon.

What about swallowing?

For some women this is a reason not to give blow jobs because they don’t like the taste of cum. The old saying “If God was a woman cum would taste like chocolate.”  Yet men find it very sensual to watch someone swallow. There are a few tricks to give the illusion of swallowing, you can be sure the porn stars do not always or continually swallow.  To avoid the taste, place the penis as far back in your throat as you can.  If the cum does not touch the taste buds, then there is no taste. (the taste buds on the side of the tongue are the bitter buds).I have a very sensitive gag reflex and when my husband is cumming in my mouth I go back as far as I can past the tongue and a little towards to roof of the mouth. Then while he is climaxing, swallow. Then you never have a bunch at one time and it gives him an extra squeeze.

 If you do not get sufficient warning to prepare then let the cum gather in one area and swallow all at one time (like taking a shot). If the idea of swallowing is still tuff on you then let it drain back out. If you watch porn movies you will notice that many of the ladies force the cum back out. You may get the taste on your tongue for a bit. This also gives lubrication as you continue to jack him off and it is at the front of the mouth where the sweet taste buds are. 

My first time getting cum all over me was an erotic eye opener for me. We were with another couple and while I was on top of my husband the other man was on his knees and I was giving him a blow job. When he was ready to cum I moved my head back and he came all over my breasts. He was excited about that and I found a new favorite thing.  The heat from the cum, the excitement and the silky feeling were fantastic.  Men love to watch themselves cum on ladies. So if you can not get past the swallowing let them give you a pearl necklace. (I later learned that was what it is called.) I have since had 5 men cum on me at the same time. Ladies it is so awesome and great for the skin. 

Supposedly the bird of  love is the Dove. Any man will tell you the bird of love is the Swallow!

My girl friend has a t-shirt that says “do not grab my head; I know what I am doing.”  After a little practice, you will too 

 

 

 

Top 10 Reasons to Swing

Why consider swinging?

I am having a terrific time writing articles about how fun sex can be. I have been asked, why swing? Taking excerpts from our favorite authors Ed and Dana’s “Consider Swinging” here are the top ten reasons to swing.

Remember Swinging is recreational sex. Responsible non-monogamy. Many couples go bowling for fun and recreation; swingers have sex for fun and recreation. Here is how it can work:

Reason #10

Enjoyable company. Swingers are the kind of people that are exciting and fun to be with. They are happy, honest, vibrant, intelligent, attractive and very friendly.  Swingers enjoy being swingers all the time. The club environment is a shared freedom, but swingers are great fun at parties, picnics, movies, dinner, ball games and any place people go for fun and recreation. Everything’s better when shared with wonderful people. The next time you see a group of couples laughing and having enormous fun, you can 

wonder … HMMM are they swingers? 

Reason # 9

A very healthy lifestyle.  Most swinging scenes discourage heavy alcohol consumption, prohibit drug use and can provide good cardiopulmonary exercise. Even the experts say a good sexual episode uses 250 calories.  The best way to stay healthy, keep on that diet and avoid colds is to know there is a social event coming up soon. Swinging will get you out and about more often than any other hobby. When we first joined a club we thought we would go to 5-7 parties a year. We ended up going every weekend. Our family wondered where we met all these new friends.

Reason # 8

Play dress up. Yes! Finally an environment that gives you the opportunity to wear those daring dresses and leather lingerie.  You can shop the adult catalogs and stores and have a place to show off. You will not get arrested, assaulted or laughed at. Most women and men enjoy dressing up and strutting their stuff. Many clubs have theme nights so you can dress in costume. But even if you do not like costumes, dressing to impress and dressing sexy is so exciting. I never knew that at my age I could wear short skirts and stilettos and be sexy. 

Reason # 7

Getting your fantasies fulfilled.  Two ladies? Three men? Same sex?  Intimate moments with a stranger? Being watched? Watching others? Large piles of anonymous flesh?  If you can fantasize about it, the swing lifestyle can help fulfill it. Swinging is about consensual and discreet participants hosting your fantasy. Knowing you can stop the play at any time gives you courage to try new tings. You may even learn new fantasies. We were in a group play one time and while I was sitting on my husband face, I was giving another man a blow job. Just before he came I pulled out and he came all over my breast. WOW I had no idea I would like that so much. It is my new favorite thing to have done.

Reason # 6

Improve your sexual technique. You and your partner may be very adept lovers but you don’t know what you don’t know. Some things need to be seen and experienced, not just read about. At an after party play time there was a lady who made my husbands eyes roll back into his head. I thought Holly Crap! I need to learn what she did. If you knew there was something that would blow your partner’s mind, wouldn’t you want to do it? The experts (whoever they are) say that there are as many ways to swing as there are swingers. So get out there and learn some new techniques!

Reason # 5

Staying “attractive” is good for you. Nothing provides more motivation to stay on a diet, or exercise, then the prospect of a swing party. Many times we stop maintaining our attractiveness when we settle in a relationship. If we want to be “swappable” we need to shake that up. This is not always just about looking like a “10”, attractiveness is about the attitude of a “10”. Many clubs are very specific about how you must look in order to attend, but many  others are about diversity. Not everyone can look like Barbie, and I am thankful for that. I like diversity in size, shapes, ages and sexual practices. Be attractive in your attitude and you will have many successful sexual encounters.

Reason # 4

Satisfy your appetite for variety.  You probably have a loving, wonderful, sexy partner but why limit yourself? Big muscles, big boobs, shapely butt or pendulous penis: blondes, red heads, brunette or bald; on top on bottom on the side … it is all out there. Life is a smorgasbord of delights.  Step up! We are very eager whenever we make love with each other. In all our years together that has not dimmed at all. However, we like different things also. Not just watching others play on a porn film, but actually playing a part. Seeing, touching, smelling and cumming in live 3-D, is very exhilarating.

Reason # 3

Good friends. Nothing outside your own family is more valuable than friendship. If you are one of the lucky ones, you have a few really good friends. Stick around swingers for a while and you will find several more. This intimate lifestyle is the perfect venue for meeting other couples that truly share your interests and approach to life. Not all encounters lead to long friendships. Some couples and singles you meet are “get in, get off and go home.” Others become extraordinary friends. You know their families, do things outside the swinging community, and are connected to their “secular” life. We have friends we travel with, share family outings with and are involved in their lives. Then we also have the benefit of sex, it is all good.

Reason # 2

Better friends. The sad truth is jealousy, envy and similar sexual issues break friendships among couples. The second best reason to swing is the positive effects it can have on friendships.  There is no reason to hide your desire for your friend’s partner when that desire is openly welcomed. There is no reason to be fearful of your partner having an affair behind your back when you enjoy watching and joining in. It is fantastic when everyone is relaxed and real, the sexual tensions are removed from the friendship.

The top reason to consider swing is:

“The couple that plays together  ….”  You have heard talk of “non-monogamous” lifestyles. This is different. If swinging were just about freely having sex with other people it would not need a special name. What makes swinging special is that couples do it together.

There are very few things that draw partners together better than the social and sexual sharing of swinging.  You may be thinking that you might not want to share your partner with someone else, consider that when you and your partner go to the movies together, you are not sharing them with the movie; rather the two of you share the experience of watching the movie. Shared experiences are the building blocks of a strong relationship. I am not suggesting you share your partner with “anyone.” I am suggesting that you share with each other the joys of experiencing other people mentally, emotionally and physically.

 

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